If anyone can shed some light on these things, that would be much appreciated!
1) At the beginning of the play (in "scene 2") when Lysistrata is talking to all the women, she makes it sound like they aren't getting any (i.e. fathers of their kids are off at war, lovers are gone too, can't buy dildos, etc.). So why does it make sense to withold sex if they aren't having sex in the first place? Or maybe they are having sex, since Myrrhine comes in late because she couldn't find her girdle and Calonice talks about doing "little favors" for their husbands. But then how is that consistent with what Lysistrata says?
2) In the first scene when Calonice asks if the deal for calling the women together is big and hard, Lysistrata makes it sound like it has nothing to do with sex/phalluses, but that's exactly what it has to do with. Is she just trying to take a more rational approach to the "problem"? Or maybe shes's trying to get the women out of some sort of stereotypical role in which women are only concerned with sex. Or perhaps she needs to point out that ending the war is more important than not having sex for a few days.
In thinking about these two points, it makes me wonder if I haven't been giving Lysistrata enough credit - I mean, I know that she has thought through this plan over and over again, but I think she has been grappling with the whole issue a lot more intensely than I realized: She has thought through every possible alternative solution, every possible way of approaching the women about this, every possible response or protest they could raise, and how to answer that. I wonder how long she has been having those sleepless nights!
Thoughts? Opinions? Contradictions? Feedback?